Can Middle-Aged Ladies Wear Biker Jackets?


There’s no indirect way to put this. Can middle-aged ladies wear biker jackets? And to be precise, what about a middle-aged heterosexual woman who has never come close to driving a bike herself?

Tish Jett, over on A Femme d’un Certain Age, captioned the above photo, “When chicken get teeth (that’s when I would wear this jacket).” Her commenters almost to a woman agreed. I was surprised, as I had hypothesized that I might rather go biker than hang out with fanged poultry. A shopping expedition with Audi of Fashion for Nerds confirmed.

I wore this outfit to work. On Tuesday, to be precise. And enjoyed myself enormously.

Details: AllSaints jacket, GAP 1969 selvedge jeans, a white v-neck Petit Bateau tee, and black and brown Gravati oxfords.

One might ask, how does one get to Biker from Quiet? Simple. High WASP Dress Code Tenet #1: Dress Appropriately. Yes, really. The dress code at my workplace is Don’t Wear Tattoos On Your Face. Everything else goes. In fact, tattoos on your face might be just fine, we simply haven’t got anyone on the team who has made that choice. Yet.

(And I can’t lie to you. Everyone’s got and aspirational persona and mine is tough and brave and laughs on the street and thinks, “Well yeah,” when someone calls her bad-a**.)

So one might also ask, how does a middle-aged High WASP lady make an aspirational biker jacket her own? The Grande Dame drapes it over her Alaia Little Black Dress. An Artsy Cousin will do as she pleases, which may involve a cotton gauze maxi-skirt. However, all Archetypes rely on one secret weapon.

Pearls, of course.

I added saturated crimson lipstick to situate the needle where I want it on the masculine-feminine gauge. Also to prevent my face from disappearing altogether amongst shoulder-quilting, distressed leather,  and zipper-strings. The messy hair, well, so as not to try too hard.

Sturdy Gals, being monobagamous and lovers of convenience, will come close to ruining said bad-a** effect with a sedate cross-body. Here, by Bottega Veneta. If I wear it hanging on the back of my hip it looks less sedate but then you couldn’t see it, now could you? Sturdies are nothing if not pragmatic and helpful by intent.

So we make Very Tough Faces to compensate. Add a sneer for good measure.

Rock on, Wild Ones.

 

Updated For Shopping in 2014

Another post from Mater, on a similar topic, here.

114 Comments

  • 02/28/13
    7:04 am

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    Susan Ledford said...

    Love it! Well put together!

    03/04/13
    6:58 am
    Lisa said...

    Let me just say, right up top here, that I was surprised almost to embarrassment by the response. Almost not quite. After all, as Mom says, a simple thank you will suffice. Thank you very much. What an adventure all around.

    08/08/13
    8:48 am
    Poolside said...

    Taking a sidewalk stroll through your blog, which I love, I laughed out loud when I saw this post, and how beautifully you squashed the demon of “age appropriate?” I had exactly the same crisis about a year ago, and resolved it with this poem: http://poolsidelaureate.wordpress.com/2012/06/25/nothing-to-lose-10/

  • 02/28/13
    7:06 am

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    Catherine said...

    Thank you so much for proving that yes, a middle aged woman can wear a biker jacket (though you did overshoot a bit- you totally ROCK a biker jacket.)I’m going to wear this very outfit on the birthday where I first feel “middle aged.”

  • 02/28/13
    7:06 am

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    Sandy said...

    You look fabulous! Everything perfect except the bag. I see a much more casual purse. Maybe a large tote, or an across the body small bag worn in back.

    Love that first sideways photo. Would I be miss to say “adorable?”

    03/04/13
    7:00 am
    Lisa said...

    I think “adorable” is never out of style. :).

  • 02/28/13
    7:06 am

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    Evelynne said...

    OMG THAT IS THE BEST STYLING OF A MOTO JACKET I HAVE EVER SEEN!!

    Sorry for the caps, but I am THAT enthusiastic. I love this on you, so much. And the pearls are the perfect finishing touch.

  • 02/28/13
    7:08 am

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    Bungalow hostess said...

    WOW you are rocking this look!
    Your biker jacket looks so sumptuous and paired with a white tee and jeans could not be more perfect. Pearls yes.

  • 02/28/13
    7:08 am

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    jacqueline | the hourglass files said...

    Ok, I love this jacket. And you really pull it off!

    I’m curious, how did it feel to wear it like this? Did it feel natural or like you were dressing up as a biker? That’s the true test.

  • 02/28/13
    7:15 am

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    Alicia Kan said...

    Lee Radziwill rocking a biker jacket: http://www.zimbio.com/photos/Lee+Radziwill/Reineldo+Herrera

    03/01/13
    1:36 pm
    Barb said...

    Lisa does it better. True that.

  • 02/28/13
    7:15 am

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    Fuji said...

    You look fantastic – my favourite of all the looks you’ve shown.

  • 02/28/13
    7:19 am

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    Fuji said...

    Another thought – would a middle age man ask this same question? No, he would not.
    If there is one thing I’ve learned in middle age it is to throw caution to the wind.

    03/04/13
    7:01 am
    Lisa said...

    I hadn’t thought about the male version, but you are most likely right. Hmm.

  • 02/28/13
    7:19 am

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    Diana said...

    You Go Girl! The jacket – and you look fantastic!
    I think women’s motorcycle jackets doesn’t suffer from exactly the same stereotypes as those of men. Well dependent upon where one lives.

    Myself? Well, it took awhile for the conservative socialite ladies; now my friends, to come around – admitting over lunch at the 4 Seasons, that they had simply given up trying to categorize me.

    On a given school day, I collect our son at his middle school in a bike I’ve had for 17 years; a 1964 R69S BMW motorcycle w/a 1948 Steib side car. It’s in a gorgeous vanilla buff color and coordinates beautifully with my jacket, Gucci skinny jeans and Jimmy Choo Universe studded clog boots. Later that evening, at a fundraiser in long gown custom formal … both accessorized of course with pearl studs!

    03/04/13
    7:03 am
    Lisa said...

    Now those outfits deserve photos!

    03/10/13
    4:47 am
    Ray Rowland said...

    the Jacket is great, the motorcycle combo is great,but I have an issue with the skinny jeans and boots. If it hasn’t sunk in motorcycle clothing is for protection and the most vulnerable part is your legs and feet, therefore you are sadly leaving yourself open to serious injury. I trust you wear a sensible helmet.Please take care, my day is taken up dealing with crash victims.

  • 02/28/13
    7:21 am

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    lauren said...

    so *that’s* why my spidey sense was tingling the other day! well done, lisa; you look beautiful.

  • 02/28/13
    7:24 am

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    Lee Rosenthall said...

    Sturdy Gal here (like my fashion icon Grace Kelly), and I LOVE biker jackets — at any age (including on wee ones) as long as their relatively simple in styling. I believe they fit right into a closet of safari jackets, trench and barn coats, and other classic utilitarian outerwear.

    Agree with Sandy that an across-the-body bag worn in back would complement your look better, but don’t go too small. (I’m sure you have at one medium-sized one in your closet, Lisa!)

    I wear my jacket with a black & white boat-neck mariniere or a white tee with a strand of long grey pearls and a fun white watchband. (I’m on a much tighter budget than you, so I went with a Michele silicone “Tahitian Jelly Bean” watch, but you probably can afford one of their ceramics — if not the Chanel one they’re all aping!

    And you’re absolutely correct about the importance of adapting to your setting: Dress. Appropriately.

    03/04/13
    7:10 am
    Lisa said...

    How did you know I’ve coveted that white Chanel for years and years:). Your outfit sounds great.

  • 02/28/13
    7:30 am

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    Linda @ a design snack said...

    Wow. And then some. Up till now I never gave biker jackets a second thought. I want one. Love the jeans, not too tight. Did you find people treated you with more respect?

    03/04/13
    7:10 am
    Lisa said...

    Yes, somewhat, they did. Hmm.

  • 02/28/13
    7:30 am

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    Yulia said...

    You look incredible! The styling is absolutely spot-on.

    Will you wear the jacket over button-fronts as well?
    If I’m not mistaken, you also have a pair of nice ferragamo ballet flats – will you also consider them with the jacket?

    03/04/13
    7:11 am
    Lisa said...

    I wouldn’t wear the Varinas with it, they don’t have enough bulk. Seems it requires a substantial shoe for balance. Button-front, yes, maybe so. So much exploring to do:).

  • 02/28/13
    7:38 am

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    Jennifer said...

    You certainly rocked it out!! Bad a** indeed. I love the no tattoos on the face dress code. Hysterical! A whole new side of you. Very chi chi.

  • 02/28/13
    7:38 am

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    Sarah @ Belle on Heels said...

    You look great! Very chic.

  • 02/28/13
    7:40 am

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    Alice said...

    I am just an occasional commenter, but I wanted to say your jacket is lovely. And frankly if you live in SF you need a bit of bad-***ery in your wardrobe!

    03/04/13
    7:12 am
    Lisa said...

    True dat.

  • 02/28/13
    7:47 am

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    Jan's Sushi Bar said...

    Pearls, diamonds and a biker jacket.

    You have no idea how much I admire you.

    03/04/13
    7:17 am
    Lisa said...

    It’s mutual. All I did here was put some clothes on:). You cook, write, have a job, have a kid at home…

  • 02/28/13
    7:50 am

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    Sylvia said...

    Yes! Rock on Lisa!

  • 02/28/13
    7:55 am

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    AK said...

    I think you look fantastic! Sturdy types aside, it fits you. Well done.

  • 02/28/13
    7:59 am

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    pve said...

    The Sartorialist needs you.
    pve

  • 02/28/13
    8:01 am

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    materfamilias said...

    Fabulous!

  • 02/28/13
    8:02 am

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    AggieK said...

    First off, I love love love your hair! But as a middle aged woman I don’t understand this fad of motorcycle jackets. I have a motorcycle (a Vespa) and a license to drive it and I don’t have a jacket like this. I do have several real motorcycle jackets with armour in them, but they are nylon in bright colors so I’ll be seen by others! I wouldn’t wear them casually.

    To me these jackets are costumey. I guess that’s ok, if you like that sort of thing.

    03/04/13
    7:19 am
    Lisa said...

    I think that clothing items that start out utilitarian (think Doc Martens, Red Wings, overalls) always look costumey to the people who are the authentic market. Just like Ralph Lauren looks completely preposterous to my father, who grew up in space similar to those Mr. Lauren likes to picture.

  • 02/28/13
    8:26 am

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    The Preppy Princess said...

    You look *so good* in this, just hip, hot and on trend. The jeans are what caught my eye, and the shoes, very cool.

    Love the look on you!
    tp

  • 02/28/13
    8:27 am

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    DocP said...

    I bought a biker jacket in kelly green leather. I returned it. The style just doesn’t work for me – I need a longer jacket.

  • 02/28/13
    8:36 am

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    Jess said...

    Your style makes me so happy! I love it. You definitely rocked that look. Very bada** :)

  • 02/28/13
    8:37 am

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    Flo said...

    Just transfer your face, hair and full body to me, and I’ll wear that outfit happily, even here in Florida, in the heat. Meanwhile, I have preordered those GLORIOUS shoes.

    ps Remember back when you said skinny-leg jeans just did.NOT.work on you? and that we needed to stop pushing the subject? ahem? ahem?

    03/04/13
    7:21 am
    Lisa said...

    Ahem. These are as skinny as I can go. And these are technically 1969 fit. Narrow, not tight. Still, point taken.

  • 02/28/13
    8:45 am

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    Mary anne said...

    You live in SF. You work in an office where a suit and stilletos would raise eyebrows. You are slim. You CAN get away with this.

  • 02/28/13
    8:45 am

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    mette said...

    You look good wearing red lipstick.
    But – I don´t like biker jackets on ” adult ” women. Never had, never will.
    Perhaps this has to do with some cultural matters.
    Women over here, wearing biker jackets are considered ” free prey “.
    The same goes with leopard and snake prints on textiles and accessories.
    I would not like to considered as such ; ).

    03/04/13
    7:22 am
    Lisa said...

    Interesting. Here biker jackets would signal the opposite. Especially with oxfords. Such cultural variants. I would hate to be considered as such;).

  • 02/28/13
    9:03 am

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    Susan Partlan said...

    I ADORE biker jackets! You look fabulous!!!

  • 02/28/13
    9:19 am

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    Marilyn Leslie said...

    So fun! You rock that jacket!

  • 02/28/13
    9:21 am

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    Deja pseu said...

    Oh, you are the epitome of cool. Well played, you.

  • 02/28/13
    9:35 am

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    grechen said...

    fabulous – such a great look for you :)
    i long to be able to pull off a biker jacket, but so far, don’t have the courage…

  • 02/28/13
    9:36 am

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    Merry Wife said...

    Ha – love the Very Tough Face! Better a motorcycle jacket than an actual motorcycle. Just don’t get one in red. :) I think you look great.

  • 02/28/13
    9:47 am

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    Anne said...

    I think it’s just perfect. I noticed the lipstick right away and thought it was exactly the right detail, although those jeans and oxfords are also critical parts of it all. Question about the outfit: I assume you don’t wear the jacket around the office. I love a plain white tee as a layering piece, but then if I had *only* the tee on in my office, even a nice tee like that, I’d feel a bit too unlayered. Just my problem, and you embraced the plain white tee as officewear? Or did you have a cardigan or something else at the office?

    03/01/13
    6:28 am
    Sheryl said...

    This is so often what I wonder with a lot of great outfits I see. When it relies on a jacket as a key piece, what happens when you get inside and the jacket must go off? It’s where I get stuck because I love jackets and I love basing outfits around my favourites … but once I’m at work I feel underdressed.

    03/04/13
    7:23 am
    Lisa said...

    I do wear the moto jacket in the office. It’s light, and no warmer in situ than a blazer. I too wonder about the white tee at my age, perhaps a subject for another post.

  • 02/28/13
    9:50 am

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    alh said...

    Beautiful! Perfection!

  • 02/28/13
    9:51 am

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    Ida said...

    Wow,you remind me of the women I see hanging onto their biker boys waists as they speed down the highways!

    The pearls add the soft touch.Ida

  • 02/28/13
    9:54 am

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    Barbara Bruch said...

    Of Course!! I am 61 and am ready to hit the buy button on that Jacket!!!

    03/04/13
    7:24 am
    Lisa said...

    Oh hooray! Company!

  • 02/28/13
    10:33 am

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    Sam @ My Carolina Kitchen said...

    You look fabulous Lisa and the pearls are just the right touch. I think, judging by the other comments, that you go a resounding yes!
    Sam

  • 02/28/13
    11:45 am

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    my honest answer said...

    Love the jacket. Seriously love it. (I’m a bit concerned you might have some VPL going on in those jeans though. Sorry, had to mention it since you seemed open to suggestions. Hope you don’t mind!)

    03/04/13
    7:26 am
    Lisa said...

    Yes I saw that! The jeans are so thick I don’t think it’s VPL, more like a crease from my hands pulling in my pockets, but yikes!

  • 02/28/13
    11:59 am

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    Rosie said...

    The Audi Effect.
    Cosmic Cool.

    03/04/13
    7:27 am
    Lisa said...

    That’s exactly what it was…

  • 02/28/13
    12:11 pm

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    Tiffany said...

    Perfect.

  • 02/28/13
    12:26 pm

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    MJ said...

    LOVE IT. I’m 43 and have been wanting a biker jacket. I left BigLaw last year to start my own practice and today, with meetings finished for the week, I am wearing dark teal nailpolish too (on very short nails). Conformity be damned, that’s what I say.

    For those of us who sort of wish we were Joan Jett in our alternative life, I think this is a fine idea. I’d need to lose weight to pull it off well, though (goody, a new motivator).

  • 02/28/13
    12:26 pm

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    Marcela said...

    You look AMAZING!
    …And I want to work at your workplace :)

  • 02/28/13
    12:47 pm

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    Dawn said...

    You and your biker jacket! And pearls! Love, love, love it.

    p.s. Love the darker lipstick, too.

  • 02/28/13
    12:47 pm

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    Philippa said...

    Oh my goodness I love you for this outfit. Pearls, red lipstick, biker jacket. Perfect.

  • 02/28/13
    1:05 pm

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    Gwennellen said...

    First of all, love the look, if the investment on the jacket paid off in versatility I would buy one too, but alas! More interesting are the jeans, GAP?? Wow! I’m going to try them out!

  • 02/28/13
    1:21 pm

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    Jeannie said...

    Can a middle-aged gal wear a biker jacket? Hell, YES!
    You rock!

  • 02/28/13
    2:05 pm

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    Margy Houtz said...

    Well, Lisa, I am MUCH older than you, and I am a big fan of motorcycle jackets…
    I think it depends on one’s attitude! I am taking the liberty of linking to my blog, wherein I made a shiny black moto jacket that I LOVE!

  • 02/28/13
    2:07 pm

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    Margy Houtz said...

    ooops…link didn’t show up… google my blog, “A Fool for Fabric” and go to October 2001, “Shiny”.

    02/28/13
    2:07 pm
    Margy Houtz said...

    October 2012

    03/04/13
    7:31 am
    Lisa said...

    Oh my gosh! You are SO talented! I can’t believe the things you are able to sew. And you look gorgeous in that jacket.

  • 02/28/13
    2:19 pm

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    Nancie Bee said...

    Of course you can! You are.
    Love the pearls with it. Just a bit of softness there to take off the edge. I think pearls go with everything- the more offbeat the better.

  • 02/28/13
    2:27 pm

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    ONEWEIRDWORD said...

    Fabulous! Seriously, you look beautiful, classic, and cool. And yes, bad-ass!

  • 02/28/13
    2:55 pm

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    flwjane said...

    Um, would you like to go out to dinner?

    xo Jane

    03/04/13
    7:32 am
    Lisa said...

    xox

  • 02/28/13
    3:17 pm

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    Rachel said...

    Uber biker chick Katie Sagal as Jemma in “Sons of Anarchy” can rock the jacket. As a Sturdy Gal myself I can’t carry it off.

  • 02/28/13
    4:09 pm

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    Maggie da Geek said...

    Love it

  • 02/28/13
    5:40 pm

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    Candace said...

    Wowee!! You look Fabulous!!! The pearls are perfect – you rock this. Plus you have that look in your eye in the first photo like you are up to something fun!

  • 02/28/13
    5:54 pm

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    Meaghan said...

    You look Amazing! Spot on with the hair and not wanting to look like ‘trying too hard’. Red lipstick: divine. I have been vacillating re: a biker jacket and I am sooooo getting one!
    Love love love your work!
    You are really an inspiration.
    Meaghan

  • 02/28/13
    6:45 pm

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    Susan said...

    This post made me laugh–I showed it to my husband and he laughed too.

  • 02/28/13
    8:38 pm

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    SE said...

    Hands down, my favorite outfit photo of you ever! And the lipstick- makes all the difference. I am now recommitting to my lipstick.

    Wow, Lisa. Just wow.

  • 02/28/13
    10:55 pm

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    Erika said...

    Oh wow. You ROCK!

    After that rather admiring and totally heartfelt exclamation, the prosaics.

    Chicken are dinosaurs. Given the damned girls peck my toes if I can, the idea of them having teeth does not attract.

    Any-aged lady can wear a bkier jacket so long as it fits! I mildly regret disposing of my (proper) biker jacket some years ago, but it was rather heavy and I’m much better served by the light-weight fashion job. Far too thin to be good for protecting the hide in an accident, but I no longer ride, so not an issue.

    One good thing about the old jacket was the number of pockets – inside, outside, on the arms. (All the zip lacings? That’s to make them easy to grab while wearing gloves). See how many you have, and if you can pare down contents of bag. Otherwise, just for the look of it, the strap needs to be longer.

    Dress code at geek workplaces are pretty much the same in Australia, certainly in the backrooms. And loving the fact that summer is finally over and I can start layering again!

  • 02/28/13
    11:13 pm

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    PJ said...

    Awesome

  • 02/28/13
    11:31 pm

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    wool&misc said...

    yes yes yes a million times yes!

    i bow down to your high darkness. all saints. you are perfection.

    kissus.

  • 03/01/13
    1:40 am

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    Melissa said...

    I LOVE that All Saint’s leather biker jacket! I’ve been looking at it for a month now and it just looks SO amazing on you. I might actually have to buy it. Now, if only you could come to London so we could have a lunch date in our matching jackets!! You look PERFECT.

  • 03/01/13
    6:57 am

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    kateC said...

    Please–no scrunchie.

    03/04/13
    7:33 am
    Lisa said...

    Scrunchie, I just can’t quit you.

  • 03/01/13
    7:42 am

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    KBG in DC said...

    Of all the looks you’ve modeled, this is my favorite. The proportions suit you and FINALLY there is the display of the good figure usually hidden under all that tweed and wool. Perhaps the inner rocker has been fighting all along to get out and kick some a$$.

  • 03/01/13
    10:42 am

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    J.W. said...

    Your proportions are good for this look. It works very well. It suits where you live. I like the pearls with it. I’d change the purse, however.

  • 03/01/13
    10:51 am

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    ellemarcheseule said...

    You badass, you. I absolutely love it!

  • 03/01/13
    1:32 pm

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    Barb said...

    “The dress code at my workplace is Don’t Wear Tattoos On Your Face.” LOL!

    You look great, top to bottom, and really rock a sneer. You do need a back bag, though. One with a visible zipper or two. It won’t clash with the pearls if you do it right, which I know you can.

    03/01/13
    1:42 pm
    Barb said...

    black bag.

    Although if it were a black back bag, that would be even better!

  • 03/01/13
    2:25 pm

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    Kathleen said...

    Stylin’ & Profilin’! Your best outfit ever. What bold style! In my opinion, what makes this outfit work is your hair. It just wouldn’t look as chic if your hair were colored in any artificial shade.

    Please show us more about how to make bold yet tasteful fashion choices. Playing it safe is just too easy.

    Kathleen

    03/04/13
    7:34 am
    Lisa said...

    I will have to experiment with bold. As you know, it’s not my native mode. We will learn together.

  • 03/01/13
    2:29 pm

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    Kathleen said...

    One more thing….

    Tell us that lipstick color and brand, please!

    03/04/13
    7:34 am
    Lisa said...

    I layered a Sephora generic red under Medieval Queen…

  • 03/01/13
    3:16 pm

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    Whitney Worthington said...

    You look so comfortable, proud, and beautiful here! Love you Twitter Mom!!

  • 03/01/13
    4:39 pm

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    Duchesse said...

    You will get a lot of fan mail for this, it’s cool. In my neighbourhood you’d get cruised heavily by some very hot women.

    03/04/13
    7:35 am
    Lisa said...

    It is unquestionably a butch look. That’s why I spelled out my proclivities. I would never want to promise what I couldn’t deliver.

  • 03/01/13
    6:06 pm

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    Donna said...

    Awesome. Gave you a shout out on RTS.

  • 03/01/13
    6:49 pm

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    Meaghan said...

    I don’t agree with those against the BV bag. I think it works. Black would be too matchy matchy. IMHO :)

  • 03/01/13
    9:39 pm

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    mnsara said...

    Proud of you! High WASP or not, wearing black leather moto jackets for the first time at our age takes a sense of style and commitment to adventure!

    (I was planning, but forgot, to wear my Joe’s leather moto while vacuuming today – bought snug, it needs more wearing to truly becoming mine. . . )

  • 03/02/13
    3:18 am

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    mademarian said...

    Super look. Everything goes together so easily. And the choice of shoes is great, not a boot, not too dainty either.

    As to fanged poultry: it’s funny, I always read freewillastrology.com by Rob Breszny because it’s not your usual fare and it does give you a little story or conundrum to think about every week. In my sign’s yearly forecast he mentioned that alligators and chicken had the same ancestors long ago and that 2013 would be the year the “chicken parts” of my personality would grow teeth.

    I’m working on it and when it finally gets warmer I’ll be sure to break out my navy biker jacket…

  • 03/02/13
    8:43 am

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    class factotum said...

    I can assure you that here in Milwaukee, there are plenty of middle-aged ladies who wear biker jackets. :)

  • 03/02/13
    9:44 am

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    Margaret Robinson said...

    Oh, Wow – you look fabulous! It’s so interesting to find that many of the comments reflect those of a certain age group who actually love wearing leather. I’ve had a simple leather and knit jacket for years, but recently wanted something completely leather. Couldn’t decide what, so instead of buying a really expensive jacket for the nonce, discovered “Forever 21″. Have gotten two rather stunning “leather” jackets – one black and one white. I’m going for the light pink one next and I’ve gotten tons of compliments on the first two. “You Rock” being the most said and in a silly way, most appreciated.

    Glad to know there’s a huge group out there finding ways to dress it up a little, in a fun way.

    03/04/13
    7:40 am
    Lisa said...

    Agreed. It’s all about the group. Your Forever 21 approach is genius.

  • 03/02/13
    12:16 pm

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    Vindalooo said...

    I am new to your blog and I absolutley love, love, love this look! I look for opportunities to wear my black moto jacket but often wonder that folks may judge “this woman of a certain age”, but I don’t care. I feel empowered, strong, a little rebellious and, yes…feminine. Bravo on a great post.

    03/04/13
    7:40 am
    Lisa said...

    Thank you very much.

  • 03/02/13
    5:13 pm

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    Worknprogress said...

    My Munro booties would look great with that outfit!

    Love the jacket. And with the pearl earrings just a little ironic.

  • 03/02/13
    8:18 pm

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    Angela said...

    You totally own this look. I would wear it in a heart beat.

  • 03/03/13
    2:27 am

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    monkeyfeet said...

    You look amazing!!

  • 03/03/13
    5:30 am

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    Ian said...

    You look gorgous ,dead sexy

  • 03/03/13
    9:07 am

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    Wendy said...

    I think any age woman can wear a bike jacket. I am well into my “middle age” and I wear one most of the time. I also ride a motorcycle and wear the skinny jeans and heels. Who are we to let people tell us what we can and cannot wear and be comfortable and happy in?

  • 03/03/13
    9:19 am

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    ann said...

    you look great!

  • 03/03/13
    12:36 pm

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    India said...

    You look AWESOME in that leather jacket! Good on you!

  • 03/03/13
    12:55 pm

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    Maritza said...

    You look great!

  • 03/03/13
    5:13 pm

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    Liz said...

    You knock this style out of the park! You can, you did, you do and you will — and you make me want to, too! This is such a brave, fearless look on you, and all of the details are just so right. Perfection!

  • 03/04/13
    12:35 pm

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    Helga said...

    You look totally fantastic! You own it!
    I can’t believe some of the questions posed re what a woman over 40 should wear. It’s enough to make me rebel! :)

  • 03/04/13
    1:13 pm

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    Forest City Fashionista said...

    Love the jacket, the jeans, the shoes, and your attitude. I found the link to this on my blogger pal Amber’s (Butane Anvil) post. I would be completely comfortable wearing that entire outfit. It’s all about how you style the jacket – I found the comment about how middle-aged women wearing biker jackets are considered “free prey” where the commenter lives amusing. I wear a lot of leather – mainly skirts but some pants, a couple of dresses, and jackets, and I don’t think I’m viewed as “free prey” but perhaps I’m just oblivious ;)

  • 03/04/13
    2:10 pm

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    Megan Mae said...

    You look pretty badass to me! It actually took a lot of soul searching for me to be comfortable in a dress. Eventually shaving part of my head gave me enough bad-assitude to feel comfortable in a vintage ‘ladylike’ dress.

    I can’t imagine a life where I spend so much time thinking ‘am I young/old enough’ for this. We only have so much time! Live it up.

  • 03/04/13
    3:11 pm

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    Amber of Butane Anvil said...

    Lisa, you are lovely and fierce in this outfit, just fiercely lovely! As Forest City Fashionista mentions, I referenced your post in mine today – http://butaneanvil.blogspot.ca/2013/03/pelican-palette.html

    Amazing genuine jacket, and so right together with the mono-mix of other classics: pearls, hairstyle, jeans, T, oxfords. Your hair is a gorgeous colour, and lucky, lucky you to go shopping with Audi, another tremendous blogger whose cool and brilliance I greatly admire. Cheers!

  • 03/04/13
    3:29 pm

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    Veshoevius said...

    The biker is my off duty staple. I’d rather be buried in one rather than stop wearing it because someone else decides I’m too old. Love how you’ve styled yours – awesome post and this is an awesome biker jacket (I might be making a trip to All Saints after this!)

  • 03/04/13
    7:03 pm

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    Heather said...

    I just had to get in on this conversation. I love the look but perhaps I’m biased. I ride my own Harley and wear biker jackets on a regular basis. I’ve never thought that it might be inappropriate or strange. Most people are surprised that I ride (I’m 61 and don’t fit the image of “biker chick”), but really, it’s the most fun thing I do! All ladies: go ahead and wear the biker jackets, but if you get the chance, ride your own bike. Gotta admit that by wearing the biker gear and hearing the rumble from my bike, I feel a little bada**!
    Heather from Friendship, Life and Style

  • 03/04/13
    8:11 pm

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    Joy said...

    You look smashing. You wear the jacket, you don’t let it wear you.

  • 03/05/13
    4:04 am

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    Alan said...

    Lisa… just found your site… no sure how!! You look really great in the biker jacket..you can ride on the back of my BMW any time (if you come to the UK)
    class always shows not matter you wear. Now you just need the leather trousers as well !!

  • 03/05/13
    9:02 am

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    rocknb said...

    Meh!

  • 03/05/13
    9:08 am

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    Tamera Beardsley said...

    I am here giving you a standing style ovation! You have made it your own with perfectly measured distinction!

  • 03/05/13
    11:42 am

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    Deborah Watson said...

    I love this look and you wear it so well !….This would be just the thing I would choose to wear but would be worried whether or not I would be judged for not dressing appropriately for my age. After seeing your photos I wouldn’t hesitate to run out any buy one of these jackets (I have wanted one for ages !) and if I look half as good as you I would be satisfied.

  • 03/06/13
    6:21 am

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    tim said...

    came upon this page accidently! but enjoyed it! i’m a crusty old male who rides motorcycles from time to time but rides Japanese crotch-rockets partly because of the cultural costume-party that riders of Harley-Davidsons (et al) seem to be embracing. the highways are filled with stock-brokers (who else can afford the 80K HD?) and of course, they all resemble some kind of iteration of the young Marlon Brando.
    waitress to Brando: “what are you rebelling against?”
    Brando: “whatta ya got?”
    a friend of mine has a motorcycle accessories shop and does a rip-roaring trade in fake ponytails and tattoos. businessmen who’ve built up their pecs and biceps in the gym, buy them to complete the rebel-ly look. nice.
    thought i’d suggest to you that you experience the complete biker-chick look. lose the pearls, get some trashy hoops, for G-d’s sake let your hair down and don’t forget to tease it! fake eyelashes and make ‘em big and have a t-shirt on under the jacket and spill a drink on it! now you’ve got it!
    go out in the world and see if the reaction is different from the leather’n’pearls look.
    love your page

    tim

  • 03/06/13
    2:31 pm

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    Amanda said...

    You look fantastic and are totally rockin’ that jacket.

  • 03/07/13
    4:08 am

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    Sue Moorcroft said...

    You don’t drive a bike – you ride one. Sorry. Just can’t help it.

    And I do have a biker jacket and I will carry on wearing things I want to wear until such time as I’m too old to choose my own clothes.

  • 03/07/13
    1:28 pm

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    Marilyn said...

    This looks wonderful on you. The pearls… perfect!

  • 03/08/13
    3:05 am

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    katherine said...

    I certainly hope that middle-aged ladies can wear biker jackets! Especially as some of us are actually “bikers”. While I agree that black leather has certain social aspects, there is little to prevent anyone from pulling off the Fonz with careful accessorization. It’s those of us who “have” to wear the blasted things that don’t always take care to add the extra touches.

  • 03/09/13
    6:07 am

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    harry said...

    True love (at least for me) is riding down the road on my motorcycle and seeing the special woman in my life with a big smile as she rides her bike next to me. Regardless of what she wears!. But I do love the black leather look!

  • 03/14/13
    4:42 am

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    Sarah said...

    You look AMAZING. I have a cream biker jacket that I wear all the time (I’m 46). I also have black leather jeans; never worn together I hasten to add. I soften the look with more feminine pieces. I’m not trying to be young; It’s nothing to do with age, it’s about your own personal style and knowing what suits you. My friends say I have a bit of RocknRoll in me, which I’m flattered by. I’m going to have to get a black biker jacket now..!

  • 03/18/13
    8:17 am

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    miss sophie said...

    i’m late to this, but just wanted to say that you look FIERCE. love love love the simple tee + jeans + biker jacket with pearls and a red lip. you know my love for leather jackets, they are much more versatile than they appear :)

  • 03/23/13
    4:59 am

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    BarbaraG said...

    Saturday March 23 NYT online Style highlights biker jackets via Bill Cunningham video.
    Bill Cunningham and Amid Privilege great duo.
    BarbaraG

  • 05/20/13
    3:21 am

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    Love Poppy said...

    Love this. Leather jackets are an absolute classic look. Never go out of fashion.

  • 09/25/13
    9:50 am

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    Mia said...

    You look fabulous! :)

    09/25/13
    12:55 pm
    Lisa said...

    Why thank you!

  • 10/04/13
    1:37 pm

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    christina said...

    You look fab! I was wondering how tall you are? I’m about 5’10 (shrunk an inch sometime in the last decade). A lot of jackets are short in the sleeves for me-do you find the All Saints Jacket a good fit? I was thinking about ordering one and than voila, there you where. It looks wonderful on you. Love your blog.

    10/29/13
    8:22 am
    Lisa said...

    @christina, I’m 5′ 5″ – having also shrunk. The AllSaints fits me perfectly – I think you’d have to try it on.

  • 10/09/13
    5:17 am

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    Welshgirl said...

    I found this blog because I have, in a bag, a Whistles bike jacket .
    I love it, I want to wear it but I don’t want to look ( as we say in the UK) like ‘mutton dressed as lamb’ or ‘tarty’….personally I think I look OK but this that as I live in a conservative part of the country it may be frowned on…

    Perhaps I need to come to see my relatives in SF and wear it then!

    You look absolutely fab I have to say, it could be your build, it could be your look..don’t know..but brilliant!

    10/29/13
    8:22 am
    Lisa said...

    @Welshgirl, Thanks! Take that thing out of the bag!

  • 10/29/13
    5:45 am

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    Kimberly said...

    I am dying laughing right now…..why am I JUST discovering your blog?! I am 49 years old and love fashion and read fashion blogs. I was getting tired of the totally perfect-starbucks-in-hand 20 something blogs out there wondering where the heck is the fashion blog that understand that my lipstick bleeds now that I have wrinkles on my mouth? I googled, “bloggers over 40″……and there you were. Reading your posts just made my day and I would totally wear a biker jacket – you rocked it! Thank you for the great inspiration! You have a new fan :)

    10/29/13
    8:21 am
    Lisa said...

    Why thank you! And thank you for laughing, too:).

  • 10/30/14
    12:07 pm

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    Michelle said...

    I believe in wearing whatever you like, whatever age you are. I have three biker jackets in my wardrobe and I’m almost 50! Guess what? I think I rock them :)

    10/30/14
    7:00 pm
    Lisa said...

    I bet you do just that!

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