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  1. Linda @ a design snack
    September 18, 2014
    09/18/14
    8:11 am

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    Linda @ a design snack said...

    You look fabulous! Hindsight is 20/10. I find packing really stressful. Either pack too much or not enough.

    09/18/14
    8:13 am
    Linda @ a design snack said...

    forgot to add that I have a pair of Wolford lace tights that lovely daughter informs me make my legs look like they have a skin disorder. Oy.

    09/18/14
    3:43 pm
    Lisa said...

    @Linda @ a design snack, Well sometimes our daughters are right, and sometimes maybe not:).

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  2. Jan’s Sushi Bar
    September 18, 2014
    09/18/14
    8:15 am

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    Jan's Sushi Bar said...

    Ahhh, I just love your style. And on that note, I’m going to bookmark this post so I’ll know how to post if I’m ever faced with an opportunity to visit England.

    Not holding my breath, nope.

    09/18/14
    3:43 pm
    Lisa said...

    @Jan’s Sushi Bar, Surely for your 50th birthday such a thing would be possible? And thank you!

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  3. Tabitha
    September 18, 2014
    09/18/14
    8:35 am

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    Tabitha said...

    What a slenderine you are, you look good in everything.

    I cannot pack for peanuts, it takes a methodical mind – I don’t have that, you and Dani excel at that sort of thing.

    09/18/14
    3:44 pm
    Lisa said...

    @Tabitha, Slenderine! Oh I love that term. Might have to use it somewhere:). And I do have a methodical mind, for better, and sometimes for worse…

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  4. Jane
    September 18, 2014
    09/18/14
    8:38 am

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    Jane said...

    Your disciplined eating habits show, and I especially adore your outfit in the second pic (dinner with your cousins.) Thanks for sharing these with us.

    09/18/14
    3:45 pm
    Lisa said...

    @Jane, You’re very welcome. My eating habits have been what they are for so long that they don’t feel like discipline any more, just a habit. Lucky for me because in fact I am not very good at self-discipline per se.

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  5. déjà pseu
    September 18, 2014
    09/18/14
    8:48 am

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    déjà pseu said...

    I am drooling over that Max Mara coat. The edited packing list is perfect, and you might even get it all into a Euro-sized carry-on. ;-) Right now I’m faced with packing for Urban Tropical…a bit challenging for me as I’m a layering gal too.

    09/18/14
    3:46 pm
    Lisa said...

    @déjà pseu, I saw your post and I wish I could advise you. I’ve traveled a lot to Shanghai, but I was working, so it was a really different situation. Also, I can’t remember what the fall weather is like, memories of the “oven” summers overwhelm my recall. Glad you like the coat. I’d been hunting for a sky blue peacoat for ages – and if this isn’t our Californian sky, it is kind of English sky:).

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  6. déjà pseu
    September 18, 2014
    09/18/14
    8:50 am

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    déjà pseu said...

    Oh, and I think the lace tights are fabulous. Take the dressy factor up just enough notches.

    09/18/14
    5:01 pm
    Lisa said...

    @déjà pseu, :)

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  7. jane
    September 18, 2014
    09/18/14
    9:02 am

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    jane said...

    i thought you looked fantastic. if it’s any consolation, i find myself carrying a lightweight rain coat far more often than i should for fashion’s sake. then again, it’s handy. and light :)

    09/18/14
    5:02 pm
    Lisa said...

    @jane, Well thank you! And lightweight raincoat, after our experience there, pretty much a necessity:).

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  8. Nancie Bartley
    September 18, 2014
    09/18/14
    9:14 am

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    Nancie Bartley said...

    You look fabulous in all of your pictures. I would pack everything lovely in those pics (save maybe that dress since it didn’t get seen anyway) and leave the rest at home. Pretty much what your revised list looks like-but that MaxMara peacoat really kicks things up a notch. Looks like a wonderful trip. Can’t wait until my girls are old enough to travel with me as adults. Or did you still do the “mom in charge” thing a bit?

    09/18/14
    5:03 pm
    Lisa said...

    @Nancie Bartley, The funny thing was that I thought she’d take charge, take charge person that she is, and she thought I’d take charge, as the mom. We worked it out. It’s wonderful traveling with adult children, just wonderful. She is such a boon companion.

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  9. E. Jane
    September 18, 2014
    09/18/14
    9:25 am

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    E. Jane said...

    We always wish we would have done something different when it comes to packing. I always WAAAY over pack. I think you look fabulous. Which brings me to this question: Would you mind sharing your “disciplined eating habits” with the rest of us? I have lost quite a bit of weight, with some more to go, but I think your ingrained way of eating could be helpful to many of us. If this is asking you for TMI, just say so…I will understand.

    09/18/14
    5:07 pm
    Lisa said...

    @E. Jane, Not TMI at all. In fact, I’ve talked about it several times here on the blog. Maybe I should do a post called My Life As A Slenderine, and gather them all for you:). Or, just search for eating, high wasp diet, etc. and it’s there. Let me know if you want more. Congrats on your weight loss. Much harder to lose than to just grow up slenderine.

    09/18/14
    9:35 pm
    E. Jane said...

    I found your posts on eating high wasp style. It all makes so much sense, and I have changed to similar eating habits, since I don’t count calories or points. Nevertheless, I have lost 45 pounds without doing so, and I have come to believe that, at least for me, counting anything to lose weight is counterproductive. Learning how to eat seems to be the key.

    We tend to eat in restaurants a bit too often, so If you have some tips on dining out, they would likely be helpful. Thanks for sharing this information. It’s so nice to be able to learn important things from one another.

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  10. pigtown*design
    September 18, 2014
    09/18/14
    9:55 am

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    pigtown*design said...

    When I went back to the UK last time, in March, I decided to do a black wardrobe, enlivened by scarves and wraps. I took black wool trousers, two black wool skirts, one knit, one longer, several cashmere sweaters and a pleather jacket. Tall boots, good flats for walking, tights and underthings. Chucked in a hat at the last minute and was glad for it… March winds and a bit of snow outside London… When I go in November, it will be pretty much the same thing, but will take a stadium length, very lightweight down coat that stuffs into a pillow.

    09/18/14
    5:22 pm
    Lisa said...

    @pigtown*design, I’d absolutely bring a hat for March and November. On the East Coast, you are more equipped for that kind of trip than I – I am not sure I even own any wool pants that fit any more! I can see the sense of all black, but having learned to wear color, through blogging, I find it hard to give up.

    09/19/14
    6:48 am
    pigtown*design said...

    Lisa… i usually wear some colour, but for ease of packing and choosing outfits, i really pared it down.

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  11. hostessofthehumblebungalow
    September 18, 2014
    09/18/14
    9:58 am

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    hostessofthehumblebungalow said...

    Packing is such a challenge for me…you’ve got all the bases covered here.
    Wished we could see that Dries Van Noten dress…perhaps another time?
    I think your stockings and pink scarf look fabulous and love that blue coat!

    09/18/14
    5:23 pm
    Lisa said...

    @hostessofthehumblebungalow, Oh but you have seen it! I own only one. That’s the thing about a print dress – you feel its impact at every wear, and don’t need a whole bunch of them. If you’re me, at least.

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  12. Patricia
    September 18, 2014
    09/18/14
    9:58 am

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    Patricia said...

    This is very useful to me as I’ll be in the UK and Germany very soon for a 16-day trip. You look great in all your photos. I’ll be packing a little lighter though – no way I can fit 7 pieces of outerwear in my suitcase!

    09/18/14
    5:23 pm
    Lisa said...

    @Patricia, Have a great trip! And no, no, don’t do what I did do what I say! The collage is my recommendations, my outfits were fun but folly for hauling around.

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  13. Susan
    September 18, 2014
    09/18/14
    10:21 am

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    Susan said...

    Lisa, You look great in all of these photos! We were in London almost exactly a year ago. I took one black lightweight trench coat. We found it cool in the early mornings, warming up considerably as the day went on. I think I managed with three pairs of shoes–a pair of flat, a pair of Naot shoes which were great for walking, and a pair of heels for dress up. It was mostly a black and varying shade of gray palette for me with various scarves.

    09/19/14
    2:08 pm
    Lisa said...

    @Susan, Thank you. I don’t need the 5 shoes shown below – 4 would certainly do!

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  14. Mamavalveeta03
    September 18, 2014
    09/18/14
    10:29 am

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    Mamavalveeta03 said...

    You look great and quite proper, I might add. (Even though I’ve never been to England, so PBS shows like “Masterpuece Mystery” are what inform my theory of proper.) and who would’ve thought that “wild lace” turned out to be so much more right than the “domesticated” variety?

    09/19/14
    2:09 pm
    Lisa said...

    @Mamavalveeta03, The Brits have a wild fashion streak. Think of Carnaby Street, in the 60s!

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  15. Ruth Slavid
    September 18, 2014
    09/18/14
    10:30 am

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    Ruth Slavid said...

    The lacy tights look great. I always think of lace/ fishnet as the tights to wear between seasons before getting into proper opaques. I haven’t broken out the tights yet though – if you think that is very tough of me I will just mention that September in London has turned out to be much warmer than August. You look good in all the photos but I must say your packing list amazes me. It had never occurred to me -and I mean really never – that you could take more than one outer layer on holiday, except perhaps a fold-up waterproof. And while I don’t subscribe to the belief of a friend who has five children that nobody can take more than one pair of shoes (yes, her children have lost their shoes and ended up barefoot in the jungles of Borneo) I think my rule is no more than three. What else? No dresses – because frankly they get sweaty and whereas you can wear a skirt forever with different tops a dress won’t manage more than one or two outings. I would certainly expect to wash my underwear on a trip of more than a week (a friend once only owned three pairs of knickers but I think that is extreme) and probably the odd t-shirt as well. My other holiday rule is never to eat spaghetti with tomato sauce – can’t risk it when you are trying to string the clothes out.

    09/19/14
    2:11 pm
    Lisa said...

    @Ruth Slavid, I believe I followed your tomato sauce rule. At least one show of sensible strategy!

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  16. Gayle
    September 18, 2014
    09/18/14
    10:41 am

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    Gayle said...

    I have the lifetime struggle to pack light .. but then my father traveled with his own blueberry preserves and (time ago) my mother had a steamer trunk! .., so genetically I don’t stand a chance!

    09/19/14
    2:17 pm
    Lisa said...

    @Gayle, We can only work with what we’re given:). Blueberry preserves, huh?

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  17. Drew
    September 18, 2014
    09/18/14
    11:23 am

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    Drew said...

    pothered! I like that. I know that state.

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  18. Kris
    September 18, 2014
    09/18/14
    12:29 pm

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    Kris said...

    Hi – love the Bethel field coat – expensive but amortized over many trips – not so much!

    Everyone – check put Catherinejane.net for her video on packing 2 weeks of great outfits in a carry-on – brilliant!

    09/18/14
    12:30 pm
    Kris said...

    @Kris,

    Oh pother – make that the Belstaff coat

    09/19/14
    2:18 pm
    Lisa said...

    @Kris, One could also amortize the Belstaff coat over a local winter, so, definitely low cost per wear.

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  19. tara dillard
    September 18, 2014
    09/18/14
    1:24 pm

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    tara dillard said...

    Pinterest, to my clothes board.

    Am a quick learner, and no surprise like everything about your style.

    Anyone who wants to keep their stump!!

    Garden & Be Well, XOT

    09/19/14
    2:19 pm
    Lisa said...

    @tara dillard, Hello! I wonder what the clothing equivalent is of keeping one’s tree stump:).

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  20. kathy
    September 18, 2014
    09/18/14
    1:27 pm

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    kathy said...

    Can’t believe how much I still love Doc Marten’s. You look great and that coat is fabulous. I’m tempted to buy it, but it’s been such a warm year, I feel like I’ll never get a chance to wear a coat again. I’m a chronic over packer but like to have choices when I’m away, so not trying to change. Those Aquatalia quilted sneakers look so great for walking and rain, if we ever get any.

    09/19/14
    6:35 pm
    Lisa said...

    @kathy, I’m thinking the coat will get just enough use here in Northern California – but the tipping point is also trips to New York City. And I’d wear socks and no shoes for several months if that might bring us rain!

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  21. Cafelatte
    September 18, 2014
    09/18/14
    2:05 pm

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    Cafelatte said...

    You look like you had a wonderful trip. I love that MaxMara coat- it goes everywhere. I am a bit agog at the 5 pairs of shoes, though. Really? I never take more than 2 to Europe- leaves much more room for treasures on the way back. Maybe one pair of the booties, and the Docs? Great photos!

    09/19/14
    6:37 pm
    Lisa said...

    @Cafelatte, I’d take one pair of booties, light hiking boots, the flat quilted sneakers, and a pair of dress pumps. The Cotswold trip made some real walking shoes a requirement. Thanks for the kind words on the photos!

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  22. Sam @ My Carolina Kitchen
    September 18, 2014
    09/18/14
    2:56 pm

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    Sam @ My Carolina Kitchen said...

    Lisa, you look wonderful in each of the outfits. I especially like the Wednesday dinner outfit – the Max Mara blue peacoat with the hot pink scarf, pencil skirt and lace tights. Very chic. I’m terrible at packing and take way too much and take too many “what-ifs.
    Sam

    09/19/14
    6:38 pm
    Lisa said...

    @Sam @ My Carolina Kitchen, Thank you:). For me it’s not the what-ifs, it’s just the needing this and only this for certain events, and not compromising. Which is just as deadly:).

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  23. AK
    September 18, 2014
    09/18/14
    3:08 pm

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    AK said...

    Any thoughts on what you might take if you were going in winter?

    09/19/14
    6:40 pm
    Lisa said...

    @AK, Oh boy. A hat and gloves, for sure. Cashmere sweaters instead of t-shirts, with camis underneath. And wool pants instead of jeans, wool skirt and dress, and MUCH thicker tights:).

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  24. Cathy
    September 18, 2014
    09/18/14
    6:13 pm

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    Cathy said...

    It looks like a beautiful trip! I am dying over your MaxMara coat, it’s beautiful!

    xoxo
    Cathy

    09/19/14
    6:40 pm
    Lisa said...

    @Cathy, Thank you! It was memorable!

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  25. RoseAG
    September 18, 2014
    09/18/14
    7:09 pm

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    RoseAG said...

    You make a good case for checking a bag.

    09/19/14
    6:41 pm
    Lisa said...

    @RoseAG, :)

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  26. Jill
    September 18, 2014
    09/18/14
    11:48 pm

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    Jill said...

    “Somewhere in Oxford” looks more like birks than docs.

    09/19/14
    6:41 pm
    Lisa said...

    @Jill, Yikes. You are right. I fixed it. Oversight on my part. This post was pretty dense!

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  27. Jeanne Henriques
    September 19, 2014
    09/19/14
    1:26 am

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    Jeanne Henriques said...

    I loved this post Lisa! I had to laugh…how we pack in earnest and then look back on our return at all the things we did not need. It is the things I wish you had brought during my trip that drives me crazy. Shoes get me every time. They need to be comfortable and before you know it you are dresssing your outfit around comfortable shoes. Not always the look I had in mind..especially when my daughers get involved in critiquing my choices. The “Nana” looks often comes up. You were so smart to take note and document it all post trip. I think you did a great job in your packing efforts and looked wonderful in everything you posted. Assume you had a great trip too! Best wishes for a wonderful weekend…xx

    09/19/14
    6:43 pm
    Lisa said...

    @Jeanne Henriques, Yes! That’s exactly it. You want to plan for your real needs, like comfortable shoes that aren’t dorky, and not wind up devolving to the lowest common denominator!

    I document for the readers, trying to make something useful about my less-than-stellar thinking.

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  28. Cara
    September 19, 2014
    09/19/14
    2:07 am

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    Cara said...

    I’ve been thinking about those Valentino shoes ever since our dinner. They were absolutely beautiful. Funnily, I looked them up online and would never have dreamed of wearing them from the picture, but on you they set my heart afutter.

    Your blue pea coat is also beautiful.

    Belstaff have had an enormous revival, post-Sherlock Holmes, just FYI.

    Finally, you are wearing birkenstocks in that Oxford picture, not Doc Martins!

    09/19/14
    6:46 pm
    Lisa said...

    @Cara, Belstaff has a Sherlock Holmes connection? I had no idea! Glad you liked the shoes, I think they work pretty well with cuffed BF jeans, and good to have the confirmation of my intended audience:).

    I have corrected the reference to Docs, just an oversight. Thank you!

    09/20/14
    3:05 am
    Cara said...

    @Cara, Yes! Sherlock’s coat is the Belstaff Milford, no longer in production sadly and when it was, costing a mere £1350.

    You have me all excited about planning my luggage for New York next week.

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  29. Rubiatonta
    September 19, 2014
    09/19/14
    6:22 am

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    Rubiatonta said...

    If you will permit me one gentle, well-intentioned suggestion, dear Lisa, I’d recommend swapping out one pair of jeans for one pair of comfortable trousers in the neutral of your choice. They work well for those days when a skirt/dress is too much (or too chilly) and jeans aren’t quite polished enough.

    When I travel to London from Madrid I usually wear dark wash jeans on the plane with low boots to get the heavy bulky stuff out of the case, and take a pair of black flat front ankle-length trousers that are as happy with flats as they are with moderate heels or platforms. A black pencil skirt rounds out the bottom options — I have one in ponte that is a workhorse and I suspect I’m going to wear it to rags. I wear lots of color on top, with scarves and/or necklaces.

    I never bother with shorts in Europe, unless I’m going to the beach or hiking. A skirt is just as cool on a hot day, and I can keep my lumpy knees under wraps, which is where I like them.

    Like you, I usually bring lots (perhaps too many) shoes. I place where I can learn new skills perhaps…

    09/19/14
    6:48 pm
    Lisa said...

    @Rubiatonta, I understand your suggestion. And if I had such things, I might have brought them. One pretty much never needs wool pants in my part of the world, and we all live in jeans.

    As it turned out, I used the black pencil skirt for those times when I might otherwise have wanted pants more polished than jeans. It worked OK, but would have been tougher had the weather been cool.

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  30. DocP
    September 19, 2014
    09/19/14
    6:55 am

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    DocP said...

    FOr my first trip to England (June, about 20 years ago) the advice I got from everyone was “bring a raincoat, bring an umbrella.” The result after missing the bus and spending an extra 2 hours at Stonehenge on a sunny mid June day – sunburn. With blisters.

    I always find packing a challenge. I now actually make a use case grid for the time away and plan outfits accordingly. I also give myself permission to check a bag for anything longer than a long weekend and plan ground transportation accordingly.

    09/19/14
    6:56 pm
    Lisa said...

    @DocP, Oh that is just a perfect story about England’s weather. I am sorry blisters were the result.

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  31. Ellen
    September 19, 2014
    09/19/14
    7:00 am

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    Ellen said...

    My suitcase to London/Paris next month will look a lot like Deja Pseu’s. I’ll only make one comment: Not every country considers jeans appropriate for every occasion, and I’d probably leave one pair home, and pack a pair of black pants instead. For the plain, I usually wear ponte knit pants; far ore comfortable for sleeping in an airplane seat, for several hours (but perhaps you fly first class?)
    One coat, no more than two pairs of shoes in the suitcase.

    What amused me the most was the term “use case”. Having worked as a medical social worker, that bit of business jargon was not in my vocabulary. But I realize that it is the principle around which I structure my wardrobe, with travel clothing needs leading the way. And realizing that I can travel with a small suitcase if I organize and shop strategically, I’ve tried to carry that principle over to the purchases I make for my “normal life” as well. Its always nice to have a label to explain what you were doing anyway;)

    09/19/14
    7:02 am
    Ellen said...

    @Ellen,
    Apologizing for the typos. The cat who helps me type hit the wrong key!)

    09/19/14
    6:58 pm
    Lisa said...

    @Ellen, No worries on the typos, the cat did a good job!

    This time I flew coach. Pretty miserable for 10 hours. But used miles, so, good deal.

    And I’m more comfortable in loose jeans than ponte or stretchy pants of any sort. Fun to find the use case model has been used more broadly:).

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  32. Frances/Materfamilias
    September 19, 2014
    09/19/14
    7:16 am

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    Frances/Materfamilias said...

    You look great in every single photo! And I love that peacoat. Just love it! Plus the lace tights — foxy you!

    Outerwear and shoes are my packing downfall also. My carry-on only is really only good for temperate travel.

    09/19/14
    6:58 pm
    Lisa said...

    @Frances/Materfamilias, Thank you Frances:). <3

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  33. That’s Not My Age
    September 19, 2014
    09/19/14
    8:08 am

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    That's Not My Age said...

    Glad you took your earring collection. Leopard plus Docs = yes, yes, yes! Also really like the pale blue coat. Such a shame we didn’t get chance to meet up but I was in book writing hell. Next time, and then we can compare earrings!

    09/19/14
    7:02 pm
    Lisa said...

    @That’s Not My Age, Next time, earrings on the table:).

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  34. Wendy
    September 19, 2014
    09/19/14
    12:15 pm

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    Wendy said...

    When I holiday , I try to blend in with the locals . I like to think they will find me more approachable that way ,which can lead to interesting encounters . I would say you succeeded in doing that here . Smart in a casual way but slightly quirky too – dare I say very British ? Or at least what many of us aim for . I too like the coat , Maxmara use wonderful fabrics – you will enjoy that coat for ‘ donkey’s years ‘ , as we say .

    09/19/14
    7:03 pm
    Lisa said...

    @Wendy, Thank you! I did feel like I fit in some, and I agree with you that the British embrace the quirk more than do we Americans. Just a little more out there, everyone. Which I quite enjoyed. And hope to for “donkey’s years:))

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  35. Eleanorjane
    September 19, 2014
    09/19/14
    12:58 pm

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    Eleanorjane said...

    You do look great in the photos and very appropriate, but that surely was a huge suitcase to carry about!

    09/19/14
    7:04 pm
    Lisa said...

    @Eleanorjane, Thank you Adult Daughter:).

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  36. Kathryn
    September 19, 2014
    09/19/14
    4:35 pm

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    Kathryn said...

    Loved your last observation about gathering tufts of experience as you traveled to enjoy later. Those are the best souvenirs!

    09/19/14
    7:04 pm
    Lisa said...

    @Kathryn, Thank you. Yes they are.

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  37. Duchesse
    September 20, 2014
    09/20/14
    7:47 am

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    Duchesse said...

    Though you looked great, IMO you overpacked! A pencil skirt with some stretch can be worn with Docs, walking in both city and country (on paths as in a park) and a rain shoe (such as Bogs) is way lighter than Wellies. And all those coats! A lightly padded equestrienne type jacket or field jacket and a trench that can go to dinner will do the job. •Make sure your walking jacket is breathable.•

    Good rule for me is that every top should go with every bottom, and the leopard tee would stay! Two pairs of ankle boots, I would not take, and London is shoe shopping heaven if caught short.

    re Rubis suggestion, I pack a techno pant instead of wool. You can was and dry it overnight; e.g., by Lole, who make hip styles, not like those TravelSmith dowdy ones.

    09/20/14
    8:52 am
    Lisa said...

    I believe you have just violently agreed with me:), except the part about looking great, which overstates my case and I thank you. I did in fact wear the pencil skirt with Docs, once.

    09/20/14
    1:37 pm
    Rubiatonta said...

    @Duchesse, Yes, techno fabric is good stuff, and I’ll have to look for the brand that you reference. I don’t wear my wool trousers much in Spain (except in the dead of winter), but I have a lovely pair of black ponte trousers from Eddie Bauer that I pretty much live in in all but the hottest weather. But even cotton with a bit of stretch will do…

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  38. Mardel
    September 21, 2014
    09/21/14
    5:03 pm

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    Mardel said...

    Love the coat and you look fabulous and comfortable in every shot. The analysis seems useful. It made me smile that you chose Belstaff over Barbour. I have a Barbour coat that was perfect in my previous suburban/country/horse country/farm waspy-suburb environment, and it seems too casual and country here in a small city. It will eventually have to be replaced.

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